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12 Fredericksburg Parent and Family • February 2017 We too often search for things to satisfy us and bring us happiness only to find that they don't. There are so many developments that have revolutionized the world around us. I think the question that we should ask ourselves, or Siri and Google Home, is what are we chasing and why? We have improved tremendously as a community, but sometimes these new got-to-haves can over stimulate and trigger anxi- ety, depression, low self-esteem and devaluing of others. The need for consumption has caused a shifting within the family structure, too. In many families both parents are working outside of the home and the role of grand- parents as caregivers has changed as the new seniors approach retirement. Classrooms now are using laptops and downloading readers as their textbooks. The businesses of our society can drive us to instant gratification and invoke more stress. If you ask most children what they are missing in their life, they would probably say they would like to more family time. I want more, I need more, I've got to have it and have it now. These are the principles that drive our families and our children. Smart devices can take the place of relationship building; decrease daily interaction within the family and sabotaging effective communication skills. Emojis (as cute as they are) can take the place of verbal expression and social media has become a place of courage, or lack thereof. Don't get me wrong, I am not saying that all these things are bad, but they could never replace what we have really been designed for and created to discover—our purpose in the world. Fully understanding your purpose brings out your creativity. I am reminded of the words spoken by the Lord in Jeremiah 29:11, "For I know the plans that I am planning concerning you, declares Yahweh, plans for prosperity and not for harm, to give you a future and a hope." During the time of Jeremiah's prophecy, the people wanted safe- ty, security, happiness and prosperity. In a state of despair and instability, they had lost hope for future peace. Discovering the Dream That Is Within You A Blueprint for Success for Families WRITTEN BY DR. JUDY B. JACOBS Your dreams, talents and abilities stimulate our economy and build our communities. Our February cover models, Nevaeha Jacobs, Chanel Davis, and Shavia Davis are pictured at the Central Rappahannock Library. They are the granddaughters of the author, Dr. Judy B. Jacobs. Photograph taken by Stephanie Johnson of babysnap photography.