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12 Fredericksburg Parent and Family • Winter 2020 12 Fredericksburg Parent and Family • Winter 2020 When my daughter was born on a cold December night, I was overwhelmed with love. I cuddled with her as my husband and I listened to Christmas music. We found an ornament in the hospital gift shop with her name on it. We dined on a Christmas dinner that year that someone else prepared. Having a baby in December? It was better than I expected. Fast forward 10 years and nearly as many birthday parties later. December birthdays can be sweet, but they can be hard when it comes to throwing birthday parties. Luckily, I have years of experience and 10 tips to make your child's next December birthday party as fun and stress-free as possible. WRITTEN BY KATHY M. CLARK 10 Tips on Making Your Child's CONSIDER PIGGYBACKING ON A SPECIAL HOLIDAY EVENT. Once we took my daughter and her friends to a "Visit with Santa" event. The kids visited businesses in a shopping center collecting candy or toys before meeting Santa. The treats served as their goody bags (bonus!) and afterwards we celebrated with cake at our house. That party was one of the easi- est we've had. THINK RIGHT BEFORE OR AFTER THE HOLIDAYS. If you can wait until the weekend before Christmas, then kids are ready to attend a birthday party. By then, they've already visited Santa, had their school party, performed in the holiday play, etc. The same goes with right after the New Year. All the holiday excitement is gone, and kids are bored—and available. SKIP THE WEEK BETWEEN CHRISTMAS AND NEW YEAR'S DAY. Not only is it Kwanzaa, but most people are traveling or entertaining relatives. PREPARE YOUR CHILD. NOT ALL FRIENDS CAN COME. One year a friend couldn't come because she was celebrating the holidays early with out-of-town family. However, it's no different from other times of the year. My oldest child has a summer birth- day, and someone is always on vacation. GO FULL-OUT BIRTHDAY PARTY MODE. Yes, Christmas music blares from every stereo and the stores offer gifts galore for Hanukkah's eight nights. That makes it even more important to celebrate with a standard birthday cake and typical birthday party decorations. REMIND YOUR CHILD THAT SOME GIFTS MAY DOUBLE AS BIRTHDAY/HOLIDAY GIFTS. Most kids don't do this. Usually, the two-for-one gift is from a relative. It's not the end of the world. GIVE YOURSELF A PEP-TALK. I'm not going to lie, planning and throwing a birthday party amidst all the other things you have to do during the holidays is hard. But we are parents. We are nothing if not strong! REMEMBER: IT IS YOUR CHILD'S SPECIAL DAY. No matter where it falls on the calendar, I like to remind people of this fact. Whenever someone says, "It must be so hard having a birthday in December," I let them know it doesn't have to be hard—it can be awesome. Throwing a birthday party during the holidays? It can be done. And, if you keep these tips in mind, it can be a happy birthday indeed. PLAN IN ADVANCE. Everyone is busy during the holidays. There are gifts to buy, parties to attend and special activities at school. I recommend picking a date for your party as much in advance as possible. BE FLEXIBLE WITH YOUR DATE. Every year our town hosts a holiday parade on the Saturday clos- est to my daughter's birthday. The whole town goes. In order to avoid competing, we usually have her party a week or so after her birthday. Special DECEMBER BIRTHDAY PARTY

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