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www.FredericksburgParent.NET 13 If you're a parent, thinking about becoming a parent, or have ever known a parent, you've prob- ably encountered the game of soccer—even if you're not quite sure what "offside" really means. Luckily, Fredericksburg and the surrounding region offer plenty of opportunities for your budding striker to grow—and for you to enjoy the ride. Soccer: America's Favorite Sport for Kids (Until It Isn't) Despite the U.S. men's national team's ongoing struggles on the world stage, soccer remains one of the most popular youth sports in America. Kids love it, parents love it—at least until they're shelling out for hotel rooms and tournament fees. (The U.S. women's nation- al team is a global powerhouse, but we'll save that conversation for another time.) For most families, the first soccer season is as essential as kindergar- ten registration. The appeal is obvious: minimal cost, easy access to fields, and plenty of bonding moments over backyard kicks. Start Simple: Parks, Rec, and Patience In the Fredericksburg area, all it takes is a call to your local Parks and Rec department to find a youth soccer program. These are low- cost, low-pressure introductions to the game—and to the chaos of trying to coach a group of 5-year-olds who think dandelions are more interesting than defense. If you want your child to thrive, don't rely solely on that weekly practice. Even if you've never played soccer, kicking the ball around in your yard or local park can make a world of difference—and give you cherished memories before your child decides shin-kicking is more fun than goal-scoring. When It's Time to Travel (and Spend) Eventually, your player may outgrow casual play. That's when many families consider travel soccer—and its many expenses. Youth soccer may start out affordably, but travel programs require serious finan- cial and time commitments, especially once out-of-town tourna- ments and hotel stays enter the mix. It's also a time to remember why you married your spouse, espe- cially when the two of you are arguing over whether an offside call ruined your child's game-winning goal. Reality Check: Scholarships and Expectations Let's be honest: If your goal is a full Division I college scholar- ship, you may be better off putting money into a 529 plan. Soccer scholarships are often partial, and competition is fierce. But if your college savings are solid and your child simply wants to play at a high level, travel soccer can be an incredibly rewarding experience. (Note: Morgan State doesn't actually have a soccer program, but the joke about choosing it over Alex Morgan was too good to leave out.) Ask the Right Questions Before You Join a Club Before signing up, do your homework. Find out what's included in the fees—uniforms? tournament costs? Are there extra charges for prac- tices or travel? Some clubs advertise low registration rates, but hid- den costs can add up quickly. And unless you're staying at a Hampton Inn in Aberdeen, Maryland, don't count on a free breakfast. Here are the Fredericksburg area's three most established travel soc- cer programs: Stafford Soccer https://staffordsoccer.com/club/travel Celebrating its 40th year, Stafford Soccer is well-organized and trans- parent about costs. A strong choice for players and parents looking for structure and experience. Fredericksburg Football Club (FFC) https://www.fredericksburgfc.org Just a year younger than Stafford Soccer, FFC has a long history in the area and a strong sense of humor. Their Under-3 and Under-4 program proudly notes "no prior soccer training required"—a good reminder that potty training may matter more at this age. Fredericksburg Soccer Club Inc. (FSCI) https://www.fredericksburgsoccer.org Formerly known as Phoenix Soccer Club, FSCI offers a smaller-scale, cost-effective option. Ideal for families looking to test the waters without a major financial plunge. Final Whistle Whether your child becomes the next big star or just has fun chas- ing the ball, youth soccer in Fredericksburg is a great way to get outside, learn teamwork, and make memories. Just remember: You don't need to be an expert to kick the ball and be present. And if your kid never plays past U-10, the time you spent with them on the field is still a win. How to Get Your Child Kicking in the Right Direction — Without Breaking the Bank WRITTEN BY DREW GALLAGHER A Parent's Guide to in Fredericksburg Youth Soccer

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