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30 Fredericksburg Parent and Family • February 2025 family money WRITTEN BY NIKKI DUCAS In the words of Booker T. Washington, "Those who are happiest are those who do the most for others." Looking around our country, it seems now more than ever people are fixated with the mind-set of what can you do for me? Living in a "me world" doesn't offer much hope for future genera- tions. In 2025, let's be the change--choose to be charitable, empathetic, and generous. It is natural for young children be egotistical and ask for things over and over until their needs are met. As children age, however, it is tantamount that they look past their own wants and desires and be aware of the needs of others. As parents, it is our responsibility to foster the value of giving of self in our children. Charity begins at home. You should take care of your family and commu- nity before caring for others farther away. Walk the walk and show your children how you give to family members and how you give of yourself in the community. Setting an example will show them you care. Giving of time can be as impactful if not more so than giving financially when you have children. Generosity starts with thinking about how others feel. Help your child imagine how others feel. Set an example and volunteer as a family in the community. Follow the Seven Corporal Works of Mercy: feed the hungry, give drink to the thirsty, cloth the naked, shelter the homeless, minister to the sick, visit the imprisoned and bury the dead. Being aware and sharing another person's feelings, experiences and emotions is called empathy. Fostering the Value of Generosity in Your Child Some tips on how to raise giving children: • VOLUNTEER WITH YOUR CHILDREN – get in the trenches and give of yourself. Spend time visiting the home-bound at a nursing home or participate in community cleanups. • GIVE A LITTLE – teach your children charity by having them set aside a percentage of their weekly allowance. Give to a charity of their choice. • COLLECT DONATIONS – participate in food/coat drives or collect toys for a non-profit children's organization. Choosing something that children can relate to or giving to someone their same age allows them to see their impact and feel more connected. When children see the fruits of their labor from asking for donations, collecting goods or giving to those in need, it will instill pride and a giving heart. They in turn are happier for having done for others.