Fredericksburg Parent

12 Fredericksburg Parent and Family • Special Issue 2024 Valerie Irizarry and her husband seem to have everything a couple needs to be successful. Valerie holds a bachelor's degree, and her spouse holds an M.B.A. Such degrees are supposed to hold the keys to financial success. But these keys haven't been enough to turn the lock for the Irizarrys. When Valerie was offered a full-time position ear- lier this year, she had to turn it down because she couldn't afford childcare. "Afterschool care for my three (of four) kids would cost more than my weekly salary," she told the Advance. Cost wasn't the only problem she faced. Valerie's family lives in southern Stafford County, and she said that with four children, there was "just one private childcare facility in my specific area that could work with me." The Irizarry's tale isn't just one of poor luck. A report released in October by the Joint Legislative Audit and Review Commission (JLARC) titled "Virginia's Self-Suffi- ciency Programs and the Availability and Affordability of Child Care" found that childcare is beyond the reach of most families with younger children in the Old Dominion State. Child care is unaffordable for most Virginia families with younger children and some Virginia families with school- age children. The costs of infant and toddler care exceed 7 percent of household income for more than 80 percent of Virginia families, and the cost of preschool exceeds 7 percent of household income for 74 percent of Virginia families. Editor's Note: This first in a multipart series exploring the challenges parents with young children are facing finding childcare in our community. Today, you'll meet one fam- ily and get a sense of the challenges before them. If you are a childcare provider, or a parent struggling with childcare costs, we'd like to hear from you. Please contact Leigh Anne Van Doren at: leighanne@fredericksburgparent.net It Starts with Cost Childcare Aware of Virginia tracks costs across the Commonwealth, and the numbers of eye-popping. Stafford County has the highest averages in our area. Parents looking to place an infant (up to 16 months) in a center will pay an average of $232 a week. Per year, that comes to a little more than $12,000. The minimum a family will pay according to CCAoVA is $180. That still works out to over $9,300 per year. Though Spotsylvania and Fredericksburg are less expensive, "afford- able" isn't a word that many families would use to describe their costs. The average cost for an infant at a center in both locales is $218 a week, or about $11,300 annually. Families can do better if they're fortunate enough to find family child- care. However, in Stafford the average cost is still $197 a week. Fred- ericksburg is $162, and Spotsylvania is $125. Though costs decrease as children age, parents who must depend upon childcare to work are looking at these costs for a minimum of five years. Irizarry has come to appreciate that the struggles she is facing are widespread. She points to online sites like MOM Squad of Fredericks- burg, where people go to seek advice, help, and tips for navigating the childcare waters. "The desperation comes through in a lot of the posts," she tells the Advance. A scan of local online parenting sites found several exam- ples of the desperation that Irizarry is referencing. One parent wrote that the cost of daycare is just the start: … daycare is more than what a lot of people make! … the amount you're paying for gas and food if your daycare/babysitter does not cover food can easily run you $100 a week … on top of what you're paying for childcare. Even for those fortunate enough to have daycare, the problems don't end. Where to Find It WRITTEN BY MARTIN DAVIS AND ADELE UPHAUS PART ONE Series: Disappearing Daycare and How to Pay for It

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