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www.FredericksburgParent.NET 21 GO TO A GAME OR A CONCERT. It doesn't have to be the major leagues or a top musician, but find a local game for a sport your kid loves or a local concert for a style of music your teen enjoys. It's simple, doesn't cost a lot, and gives you a great time out together, and it's great if it is outdoors! Plus this one doesn't usually take much convincing. BE THE HOUSE THE KIDS WANT TO COME TO. This one isn't as bonding as some of the other ideas on the list, but when you create an atmosphere your teen and her friends want to be in it is so good. Not only is your teen around more, but you get to know her friends and see them interact together. Be goofy and silly. Have the good snacks. Resist the urge to embarrass or scold. Don't mistake this for changing how you do things or your rules. Just be real and welcoming and let the rest happen naturally. SERVE SOMEONE ELSE. Not all teens are eager to participate in serving others, but once you get started most kids come around and even appreciate it. Find some- thing you can do for someone else together. Working together is the key to making this successful. Good places to try are soup kitchens, read- ing to kids (even summer camps and summer school may offer opportunities), cleaning up a park, or bringing a meal to someone who could use some help. It doesn't have to be complex, it just needs to be about giving. PLAY THEIR GAME. Sometimes teens are wrapped up in the latest game or app. Get involved. It will most likely be funny, but giving them the chance to show you how to do something creates a special bond. Recognizing their expertise helps them feel respected and that goes a long way. DREAM TOGETHER. Even little moments offer opportunities to connect. Asking questions is a great way to see glimpses of your teen that you never imagined. Here are a few questions to get you started: What is your dream vaca- tion? What kind of house do you think you'll live in when you're my age? If you could eat anything in the world for your last meal what would it be? MAKE TIME, BUT DON'T FORCE IT. Being available is one of the best ways to create a connection. It doesn't mean following your teen around, but make sure that you aren't checking out or disappearing every time they are home. Be present and open and see what happens! Your Your Teen Teen 5 6 7 Working together is the key to making this successful. 8 9 10 Being available is one of the best ways to create a connection. You may be surprised at what they come up with ...