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6 Fredericksburg Parent and Family • November 2021 parent fredericksburg & family Entrepreneur of the Year PROUD FOUNDING MEMBER ADVERTISING PHONE 540-429-3572 EMAIL leighanne@fredericksburgparent.net CALENDAR & SOCIAL MEDIA E-MAIL webmaster@fredericksburgparent.net EDITORIAL PHONE 540-429-3572 E-MAIL fredparenteditor@gmail.com SNAIL MAIL P.O. Box 7884, F'burg, VA 22404 www.fredericksburgparent.net The publishers reserve the right to reject any advertisement, editorial or listing that does not meet the publication's stan- dards. No part of this magazine may be reproduced with out permission. Listing and advertising rates are available upon request. Every effort has been made to assure the accuracy of the information con- tained herein, however, the publisher cannot guaran- tee such accuracy. Listings and advertisements are subject to typographical errors, ommissions and/or change without notice. For terms and conditions please visit our website at www.fredericksburgparent.net © Copyright 2021 Nurture, Inc. All rights reserved. LIKE facebook.com/ FredericksburgParent SIGN UP www.FredParent.net TWEET twitter.com/fredpar- ent PIN www.pinterest.com/ fredparent FOLLOW @fredparentmagazine WRITTEN BY CHRIS JONES editor's note editor's note Photo by Corey Miller Photography Say Say WHAT? WHAT? WHAT? WHAT? PUBLISHER Leigh Anne Van Doren Tabitha & Jamie Nelle's mom EDITOR & WEBMASTER Chris Jones Quincy, Hayden & Olive's dad MEDIA & ADVERTISING DIRECTOR Megan Walsh: Mia, Noelle & Adelaide's mom DESIGN & PRODUCTION Cheryl Carter: Alex, Kate & Jackie's mom CALENDAR & COOL THINGS TO DO ELETTER Caroline Murray: Nate and Brendan's mom EDUCATION & INFANT ELETTERS Debra Caffrey: Aidan's mom SPECIAL EVENTS COORDINATOR Jessica Trask: Cye, Asher and Ragan's mom MARKETING & EVENT INTERNS Mira Dover and Ragan Trask Card games were a common occurrence during the holiday gathering seasons at my grandparent's house when I was growing up. My grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins would play Tonk, Pokeno, Rummy and other games. The house would be filled with the smells of food, cigarette smoke and laughter. As a kid, I loved to hang around the adults at the table and watch them play their card games. When I was 4 years old, one such night, I was floating around the card table. I was summoned by my Uncle Butch. He was in his early 20s at the time. He leaned over in his chair and whispered into my ear. I walked over to in the vicin- ity of grandmother said a 12-letter expletive that starts with m and ends in -er. Everything stopped. Dead silence. She sprang from her chair, grabbed me by the arm, and escorted me to the bathroom where she washed my mouth out with a bar of hand soap. I cried. I didn't know that I had said something so horrible. I trusted my uncle because as a child, you trust the influence of grown folk. That was 1980. In 2020, that influence whispering to my kids isn't a relative, it's the television and the Internet. My daughter sometimes imitates the things she sees and hears on media she con- sumes and it's usually nothing to bat an eye at, but one day last month I heard her belt out in the direction of her brother, "Guess what? Deez nuts!" I didn't share my grandmother's reaction (that's a fast track to a DSS caseworker rapping on the front door when your kid talks about 'what dad did last night' at school). No, once the initial shock wore off, I was able to calmly let her know that what she said wasn't appropriate. She took it well, and while she hasn't said it again, it's a reminder to make sure I stay on top of what happens to pop up on her TV. I share this to remind you to have fun and enjoy quality family time during the gathering season this year, check your child's television programming, and if your mother asks your child what she wants for dessert and she yells, "Deez nuts" smile, shrug, and blame your spouse. Just kidding! Happy Thanksgiving, FredParent readers.

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